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MBTI Guide: What is Fe vs Fi (MBTI functions)?

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By nadjib dali ahmed
Two scales, one with a heart symbol (Fe) and the other with a puzzle piece (Fi), representing the different approaches to emotions (Feeling).


In the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), Feeling is a cognitive function that influences how individuals make decisions based on emotions, values, and empathy. Fe (Extraverted Feeling) and Fi (Introverted Feeling) represent two distinct ways in which individuals engage with and process emotions.


Extraverted Feeling (Fe)


Fe is an extraverted function that focuses on external emotions and social harmony. Individuals who lead with Fe are often attuned to the emotions of others, seeking to create a harmonious atmosphere and prioritize the collective emotional well-being. They have a natural ability to empathize and adjust their behavior to maintain social harmony and meet the emotional needs of those around them.


Key Traits of Fe:


Empathy and Social Awareness: Individuals with Fe are highly attuned to the emotional atmosphere of a group and prioritize the emotions and needs of others.


Harmony-Seeking: They aim to create a positive social environment, often adapting their behavior to maintain peace and cooperation within a group.


External Validation: Fe users may seek external validation and approval, considering social norms and expectations when making decisions.


Introverted Feeling (Fi)


Fi, as an introverted function, focuses on internal emotions, personal values, and authenticity. Individuals who lead with Fi deeply connect with their own emotions and inner values. They prioritize authenticity and making decisions based on their personal moral compass, often seeking alignment with their inner beliefs and convictions.


Key Traits of Fi:


Authenticity and Individual Values: Fi users prioritize authenticity, being true to themselves, and making decisions aligned with their deeply held values.


Emotional Depth: They have a rich and profound emotional world, but it's primarily internal and less focused on external validation or social harmony.


Empathy Rooted in Self-Understanding: Fi users understand others' emotions through their own experiences, relying on a deep understanding of their own feelings to empathize with others.


Balancing Fe and Fi


Both Fe and Fi contribute unique strengths to individuals' interactions and decision-making processes. Understanding these functions can enhance self-awareness and improve communication and empathy within relationships and social dynamics.


Conclusion:


Fe and Fi represent different approaches to processing and utilizing emotions. Recognizing and valuing the diversity of feeling functions can lead to more empathetic and harmonious interactions, both within oneself and in relationships with others. 

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